Women’s Biodata For Matrimony – 3 Sample Profile Descriptions
Biodata for marriage comes into play the moment you declare your inability to find a man on your own! One of the biggest advantages of finding romantic love before your parents start pushing you to get married is the fact that you can do away with creating a biodata for matrimony!
That leads us to a fundamental question – What is a marriage biodata or biodata for matrimony and why is it the start of a painful process of going through matchmaking that will eventually result in an arranged marriage?
What is a biodata for matrimony?
The biodata for matrimony as we know it now is a summary of everything about the man or the woman planning to get married. It’s the resume for marriage and becomes a central point of focus for all arranged marriages in India.
While there is no law or Government mandated rule that specifies the format and content for a biodata for matrimony (very similar to the fact that there is no single recommended approach to writing a resume for a job interview), there is a general expectation or understanding on what a biodata format for matrimony should look like.
Interestingly this very notion of “understanding” of what goes into the biodata for matrimony gives rise to lots of other issues and confusion.
Your biodata for matrimony has three key components
A resume for marriage that includes basic details considered to be important criteria for marriage. This includes name, age, date of birth, religion, caste, education, profession, names of parents and their professions, height, weight, skin color, and a rather shallow description of “hobbies”. In some cases, people also include a few lines about what their expectation is from a prospective bridegroom.
The second component is the horoscope. This is usually printed as a separate document or incorporated seamlessly with the rest of the personal data. There are many related data points that are explicitly called out such as time of birth, birth star to name a few.
The third component is usually a hard copy of a postcard sized photograph. In some cases, a passport sized copy of the photograph is stuck to the marriage resume.
In summary, it’s either one piece of paper or three separate items clipped together.
Here is an example of a 1-page biodata for marriage found floating around on the Internet with personal data! Being good citizens, we masked the personal details.
Notice that there is next to no effort to make it attractive. It looks like a page from a product catalog and is full of grammar mistakes.
What’s wrong with the biodata for matrimony?
So what’s wrong with this approach of writing your biodata for matrimony? There are plenty of issues.
Here are four important challenges:
1. Your biodata for marriage in its traditional understanding reinforces stereotypes and puts you at a disadvantage. This is especially true if you are a woman. These stereotypes are to do with your skin color, height / weight, where you work (there is a general consensus that MNCs are good!) and how much money you make.
2. Your biodata for marriage is probably no different from that of your friend! When you put two biodata for marriage together, there is very little to choose from other than hard data points. For example, you may be considered “fairer” or taller or of more acceptable body type (weight) or maybe you work for an MNC and making more money than your friend. None of these factors will help you find your soulmate.
3. If you use your biodata for marriage as a tool to attract the right group of men, they fall short miserably. There is no way a biodata for marriage that only showcases hard data can improve your chances of finding your soulmate as you will have to wade through a large volume of responses with very little real matches showing up.
4. If you think you can use your biodata for marriage just to shortlist men from a similar background and then go through a detailed evaluation process, you will be disappointed once again. Going back to point 1 on this list, it is unwise to be willingly treated as a product or a commodity and then hope that the person that participates in “shopping for a bride” actually turns out to be your soulmate.
1. Journalist who is a book lover and a travel addict
I am a tall (5‘7”), medium-built, with a pleasant demeanor from a traditional Tamil Brahmin family. I graduated from Loyola College, majoring in Literature. Reading classic Tamil literature is my hobby and that’s why you will find me buried in my books. Reading has also stoked my passion for travel as I end up discovering new books everywhere I go! Long train journeys in the company of my books are what I live for. My job as a journalist for The Hindu allows me to pursue the twin interests of books and travel, and I consider it as a blessing to have a career aligned with my interests. As you can imagine, reading books and traveling has made me a happy-go-lucky person with a positive outlook towards life.
Why we love this profile?
This is a great example of steering clear of listing hobbies such as watching TV or reading magazines. When we read the profile, we see how interested or keen the woman is in pursuing her passions for books and travel. The fact that she works as a journalist also aligns completely with her pursuits. On the whole, this profile shows that the woman has a positive outlook to life and has the chops and intelligence to make her dreams come true.
2. Self-employed software engineer who loves family
I am a self-made, confident girl with a great sense of humor. I am 5’5” tall and have a well-balanced physique. I got hooked to computers very early in childhood. What started out as casual gaming, morphed into a passion for web development. I am having the time of my life helping startups build cool software products. I always make time for my family and plan my work schedule around my family commitments. I am a regular at the local stand-up comedy club and try my hand at impromptu stand-up shows for my friends and family. Several of my family members work for the armed forces and I value their sense of commitment, honesty, and love for the country.
Why we love this profile?
This is no ordinary woman. She is a software entrepreneur and a software wiz kid that channeled her talent into a productive career. She talks about her interest in comedy. What is unique is her ability to deliver stand-up comedy. This is a refreshing change from seeing profiles that list a whole bunch of activities as hobbies only to be counted among a sea of similar profiles. This profile certainly stands out and attract a lot of attention from men.
3. Social activist who is a divorcee
I am an outgoing person and I believe in making a difference to those around me. I am 32 years old and 5’8″ tall. I run my own non-profit organization that provides training to victims of domestic abuse so that they can lead an independent life. I started this initiative as I went through a brief marriage that ended in a divorce. While I had the tools and resources to get back on track, I was moved by the plight of countless other women around me who are trapped in abusive marriages. I also dabble in painting and I am currently taking painting lessons to develop my skills. Both painting and my social activism give me plenty of opportunities to express myself and also motivate women around me to remain confident and self-sufficient.
Why we love this profile?
Divorce is challenging especially to the Indian woman. In addition to the trauma of going through the divorce, remarriage also becomes a big challenge. Every matrimony ad by a divorcee talks about being an “innocent divorcee“. This profile, however, gives a glimpse of the positive approach the woman took after her divorce. Through her profile, she demonstrates that she believes in taking practical steps not only to get her life back on track but also to make a positive difference to others. Her profile stands out in a sea of “innocent divorcees”!
Bonus profile descriptions for marriage biodata!
if you have a unique personal situation such as a disability or a divorce in the past, or you consider yourself to be very different from the crowd, you may want to check out these sample matrimony profile descriptions based on personal situations. Samples cover the following scenarios:
Click here to read them.
Need a traditional biodata format for matrimony?
Do you need a traditional biodata for marriage format for reference? We created a sample biodata format for a conservative, educated girl.
This biodata format has space for horoscope details as well as a description about her family. Please note that this is only a sample profile and does not belong to a real person.
Click here to view the sample marriage biodata.
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